- asked How do you respond to someone who hates you…

Donʼt bother to think of their existence, just let them be. Hate for no reason means they found something that they donʼt have in you.

Hans · 1y

i'll make them hate me even more by being a wholly unbothered until that feeling choke them to d3ath idc idc

Ignore. Ignorance is a bliss. I know, easier said than done. But you will have to learn to ignore people. At all points in your life, you will come across people who will try to pull you down. This treatment by your friends just counts in rude. I have seen cases in which people choose to go out of their way to demotivate others. It will be difficult in the start, but try to ignore such people. Find people who are doing as well as you and preferably better than you.

Nathanael Isaac · 1y

let them be, i cant control it and i’ll ignore them as the respond. feel free to hate me honestly tapi jangan spread hate sampe nyebar berita yang gak bener, kalau casenya kaya gini, ku pukul lah!

𝓐urora · 1y

Let them be. I would try to distance myself from them or even cut-off the relationship. If they cross the lines, I'll make a move.

َ · 1y

I never insist on everyone to like me and to hate me with no exact reason must be their own choice. Nothing I can do to stop them and I’ll let them be. As long as I am doing what I think it’s right and harmless, why would I care about someone hating me? 😕

Liel. · 1y

No respond, soalnya no reason?

Sadha · 1y

unpopular opinion: hate is as normal as love. unfortunately, so many people refuse to look at the dark side. life is not as simple as black and white where you can choose one side and ignore the bad ones. hidup enggak selamanya ada di sisi terang. kadang orang-orang butuh juga bagian gelapnya buat jadi penyeimbang. there is a book on my bedside which i haven’t finished yet since i got no time by jiemi ardian, merawat luka batin. i remember there is a part where the author told the reader: negative emotions are still emotions. being mad, sad, disappointed, is also a part of our emotional system. i believe the same thing happens to society through something called ‘hate’. is it bad? it might be. c’est la vie. it is life. no matter how bad it is, it will always be there. and it’s up to us, as the humans, how can we respond to them. and for me, if someone hates me for no reason, i treasure them as how i treasure people who loves me. they are a part of my life nonetheless. whatever the reason is (even when it’s no reason).

cic★ · 1y

Pardon? They do not even exist to me. It’s up to them how they perceive me; I’m just being myself. I don’t rob their clothes and make them mine so they can despise me and spread rumors about me. I’m overjoyed to have so many people who adore me, and I doubt the “haters” can compete. They wouldn’t even be in my shoes; how come they think they know me so well? Simply live your comfortable life. You are you, and I am me. I don’t need your disapproval. 👏🏻

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Dakarai · 1y