Both.

Is it greedy if i want to choose both? I need someone who i can hold and text the first time when something interesting happens in my life, but i also need someone who always gives me a place in their life and gives me the opportunity to just 'go home' for a moment.

Why not both?

Have somebody to hold on. Soalnya take my hand and hold on tell me everything that you need to say cause I know how it feels to be someone, feels to be someone who loses their way.

Somebody to hold.

both

no, i'll hold myself and lean to myself too.

Interesting question. I actually need both, i need someone who stable, strong, healthy and mature enough to hold me. And I need emotional support to lean on. Because I'm a person who will hold my partner and could be both between hold & place to lean on. We both have to feel secured enough with ourselves to protect each other.

Hold.