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If I may ask, how do you measure the kindness or badness of a person? There are various factors and perspectives to consider. For starters, try changing your perspective on the subject and observe what might be wrong with their surroundings. Moreover, consider their past experiences, background, and current environment. Understanding the context of their actions can reveal whether situational factors are at play. Fell free to DM me, and i can give you a case to discuss, or we could exchange stories 😉
Well, it's still bad for me. Just because your life bad, you don't have to make everyone else feels bad too.
I think we can know that through their reasons, the consistency of their action, their reaction to their own behavior, and I do believe that it's important to know the environment or people they live with too. The definition of bad is different for some people. They may not realize what they do is considered bad to others. It can be tricky to see the consistency of their action if they're used to live in an environment or live with people who like to do something bad and so their judgement of doing something bad is not that clear or obvious to them.
So to me, personally, the two things we can do at first are talking and observing them directly because we should not judge a person easily.
From their reasons or the story behind this person?
I always make it a point to not judge someone immediately. To figure this out, I'll look at the bigger picture and see how consistently they act like that.
Sometimes, people have no choice but to do something wrong, and it might be their first time. I won't call them bad; even though what they did isn't right, I can understand why they did it.
you don't.. that's just how life is, you never know if someone actually meant what they said or did and there's probably nothing u can do about it.. well, most of the time
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