Dear Anon, I appreciate the question. The funniest thing is I just accidentally opened Retro to find this ask — meanwhile, I've been sarcastically laughing at myself that if I don't lose my mind in the next week(s) then I won't ever. I'm trying (maybe not trying hard enough) to be as well as possible, both mentally and physically (I'm trying and failing haha). There are some uncertainties in my life that I must figure out the sooner the better; I hope that once I manage to be done with this, things will truly become easier. I hope that with this, I can also become more active again in the fandom, my upcoming projects are making me excited!! I also hope that eventually, I can get back to my ongoing fics as well (you could catch me replying to the oldest unanswered comments these days, I'm trying to catch up). Anyhow, I am rambling — thank you for checking in! I wish you (and anyone who reads this) a wonderful day!♥

I don't RT/tweet with the neuvithesley tag to respect those who are here for wriolette only. I know that some people take the ship names extremely seriously, and as I have wriolette on my account everywhere, many of the ppl who came to follow this account may be strict. So, to respect them, I stand to use only one of the tags (99% of the time.)
For NSFW, my preference is also clear with these two. I don't mind if others like them the other way around — I think the sides can co-exist, but I like them in the wrlt setting.
To be fair, as I just mentioned in my previous retrospring answer, I'm on SFW lands mostly (with what I create and with what I read, even mostly with the art I see) — what I truly like is Wrio being the more dominant one in their relationship. And I also said I like them as equals... And this is true. To dissolve this paradox, maybe I can rephrase it to the way that I like when Wrio has just that little more 'decision-making power' in their relationship. Bc Wrio would decide for Neuvi's good anyway. (I say I like wrlt and Wrio topping but he is a service top in my read.) I think for someone like Neuvi, who has carried such a burden alone for centuries, to give up the need to lead is st wonderful. They both are their own world's 'rulers', but Neuvi is more of a public figure who has a nation watching his choices (let it be in the past or now post 4.2). I think it's catharsis for a character like him that he can rest and in his private matters, he doesn't have to be the one who has to make the decisions. It doesn't mean he cannot do this — bc the point is that the 'control' he gives up is based on a conscious choice.
When I got into this fandom (late August), the wriolette / neuvithesley sides I saw were in a state that the wriolette side fit my preferences way better from many sides (NSFW was just one). I know wrlt shippers who characterize them in a way that is not for me — and I just befriended a wonderful person lately who ships them mostly the neuvithesley way but we basically share one brain cell about their personalities and interactions.
So, by base, I wouldn't mind SFW setting neuvithesley. I often like art with this tag — I think if someone truly has their preferences then they have the tag muted so they won't see those tweets bc of me unless they check what I like...? I doubt they do. But I don't RT things with this tag, and when both tags are used I'm in a conflict. As a creator, I understand why someone would use both of the tags... But then again, see the beginning of my answer. Sometimes I slip and RT but I tend to stay with likes only, usually. If a piece of art moves me enough and I have the energy, I will still like it and verbally tell about it. I still follow people who ship them both ways, even ppl who multipship them. Bc I can curate my own experience (e.g. mute multiship tags for Neuvi and Wrio) and I can scroll away if I see st I don't like. We all should be doing this.
This answer got long but I made things clear (I wanted, bc you may be not the only one who thought of this question). So: I like Wrio and Neuvi and their loving relationship, and as long as it's not NSFW, tags are rather silly labels bc their dynamic matter more to me than a tag — but what I share also matters to me bc I respect ppl who have stricter preferences. As for 18+ content, I have my preferences, too. I hope I answered everything!

I made this place bc I'd like to talk to shier ppl and give them the chance to speak — sometimes, it's scary to just write to another person. It was a long time ago now, but I've been there as well before. Tender is another wonderful word to describe how I see wrlt — I'm happy to know you share my vision!! I know this isn't for everyone but I believe that different 'flavours' can co-exist in peace<3
Maybe I will disappoint you now bc I don't have too many thoughts about Neuvi's dragon-parts. I like the idea that he has some scales under all those robes he's wearing... Maybe a tail or fins showing up when he's in water or he's using a bigger amount of hydro mhm. We can add some glowing into this — and gosh, he's ethereal and he's everything. As for nsfw, I rarely write it and I rarely read it (or rather: with caution). I have my reason to have stricter preferences and be careful what I open and consume — as for dragon parts in this setting, I would probably not write it. If reading, then I'm once again not the biggest fan of this but sometimes I may read it — I know many ppl enjoy this and I'm happy for them, even if I don't truly belong to this category. Back to HCs: I think it could be an adorable scenario to have Wrio going "Wow" about Neuvi's dragon parts when he sees them for the first time. I think Wrio is a practical and tactical man and he could ask st nerdy... But maybe Neuvi would like that haha and he wouldn't feel as shy (or, to add angst flavour: he wouldn't feel as an outcast) to talk about his draconic parts. I take Wrio as a curious man so ofc it'd be nice to let him explore (and we can decide how far we go with this).
Then, if we mention the 'dragon' — I haven't written dragon form Neuvillette but ohhh one day I will, I'm itching to do that. High-fantasy was my go-to genre as a teen/young adult to read, I love the idea of full dragon form Neuvi<3

Soft and kind — this is one of my favourite things to say about wrlt. They are dutiful and they care more about others than about themselves... Imo this also appears in their relationship. Aside from nsfw preferences, I like Wrio being in the lead (only in the slightest because they are equals. But to imagine that someone like Neuvi can trust this to another, oh... it hits so well). But anyhow of the tag (wriolette or neuvithesley), I dislike when one of them is portrayed as being unkind and/or dominating in a way that pulls the other down. In my read, they are just kinder, gentler, and more caring than this to ever happen. And yes, as you wrote... Love is warm. I rarely see this mentioned, while in Wrio's demo, imo this ideal and how much this has been missing from his life is clear. Love should be warm between them, otherwise, it's not my cup of tea (no matter the tags). I agree with you fully!<3

Please, take my words with caution—I am no lore expert. As far as I know, Scylla is the previous Sovereign but I lost track of what is a leak and what isn't anymore. If I know well, the Remuria timeline is a little messed up now (e.g. having Egeria existed during this period?). I hope my answer isn't getting the wrath of lore people directed towards me now haha^^" With Scylla and Remus tbh my mind stopped at the 'ancient toxic yaoi' part and also I'm like 99% wrltt obsession and I have 1% spared for remulla~ I blame Lae (lol the number of times you are getting mentioned in my retrospring) and their Scylla with his hair pooling in his lap. That image burnt into my mind so now I simply must care about his dumb dog god king bf too (jkjk but Remus you clown I love you I hate you). I'm just weak for the "giving the goblet" kind of love letter stuff and my mind is stuck with that info. I think I managed to answer your question but also not answer it at all rip, bear with me, I'm trying

I'm happy to know if my RT could contribute to your new brainrot!:)<3 Lae's fic is a masterpiece - sadly, the ship is not popular enough so it lacks its readers, I truly hope this will change. I'm lowkey dying to know Mhy's take on Scylla (like, I can imagine, but I need to see him haha). I come to wrltt from having a Neuvi obsession (okay, it took me only days to get into the deep sea) but Neuvi and Scylla too have a special corner in my heart (without shippy material). And Remus... At this point, I need to know if his appearance can be parallel with Wrio's or if he's rather the blonde with purple eyes as a good few ppl see him. Based on the past, I kind of have high hopes we will get at least st short animated (in the drawing style) in a later patch crossing fingers
I'm sorry for the late reply, I hope you're having a nice day!<3