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Pandy · 12 answers · 2y

Should sex education in schools also include good sex and foreplay techniques?

NOOOOO. Anybody who knows anything about kids and predatory tactics know this is a paedophiles wet dream.

No, I don't think so, regarding good sex and foreplay, people should just do what comes naturally. It's not necessary to teach them this. But, porn seems to mislead a lot of people about what good sex and foreplay (like some have said, porn seems to be many people's primary source of sex education), so I think sex ed should talk about porn and how it's misleading and other destructive characteristics of it (scientifically known properties, not puritanical opinions).

I'm not qualified to comment on that because I received all my sex education from pornographic clips!
But seriously there wasn't and still isn't any sex ed class in the educational system of my country. Also, my parents told me absolutely nothing about anything related to sex. Thankfully I had access to internet!

Nah, just focus on safety and contraception, birds and bees and whatnot - they can discuss the Kama Sutra amongst themselves

Better to learn to speak openly and unashamed about sex. It could be useful to also see examples of what types of joys you could have. Better that than getting your info from very sadly made porn videos.

Nope. Let’s save that for the sexuality psychology course in university/college.

Honestly, that would be useful. But those skills are usually acquired and used after school, and given that, probably, the fun of it is learning with practice, there isn't much need for that.

I learned in sex ed where people commonly have erogenous zones. Gives you a rough map of where the fun is. I think any more details would require practical instruction and I would have some objections there.

Awkward... here's how you lick a clit.. nah I can't see that being accepted in the Bible belt😆

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