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That’s a sure thing I have to acknowledge because I do — time to time. I was formed with various shortcomings yet I won’t deny that’s what makes me at least as a human being because I can’t go overboard to change an idea of me that would have come to people’s mind for I believe that we have different state, cost and capacity to normalize it, but I always set boundaries and some space for myself so I will be able to overcome it and take a reflect on it to shape the better version of me everyday.
I believe everyone has toxic traits. Sometimes we can't control it, all we can do is apologize (kalo udah terlanjur ngelakuinnya) and self reflection.
I did, sometimes I felt that, too. But as you said, everyone makes mistakes, no matter what, and we should accept that. Just like everyone has bad days, everyone can also act in a toxic manner from time to time. But again, sometimes, mistakes make us human beings so we can learn about things, right?
As for mine, if I think that I am toxic enough for everyone around me, the first thing that I’ll do is willing to reflect on my mistakes and step aside first if needed. I always want to make stable and healthy relationships with all my friends, so if I am somehow being toxic, I’ll shoot my apologies when necessary; learn how to properly apologize, and try to fix it.
It might be a bit hard to stop being toxic for others or myself, but since I knowledge that was a hard thing to do, so I should be more considerate of others. Before I say something that might be hurtful to others, I try to put myself in my friends’ shoes. So yeah.
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