Naina asked What if someone you never expected say 'i l…

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I've been in this situation, depending on who says that to me, if that's someone who steals my attention, it's an opportunity for me to say "I love you more" besides that, I would be much shocked over their feelings and appreciate them so much if they're someone not too close to me, appreciated their courage to express their feelings.

Asher Wilhelm. · 2mo

That's fine for me.. because humans are of course entitled to their own feelings. Doesn't mean I have to reciprocate though.

Konstantine · 2mo

Getting shocked, and wondering how the heck.

Noah. · 2mo

GIMANA YA.. Kaget lah pasti, tanya dulu bisa sukanya tuh kenapa. Kalau alasannya bikin aku luluh sih kayaknya bakal buka hati buat dia. WKWKWK.

cher, ‪‪❤︎‬ · 2mo

My intrusive thought after reading this question that I'll answer with "who doesn't?" Instead (Just joking) (this behavior for turning every serious situation as a joke should be stopped)

Honestly, I've been in this situation several times, and my response depends on who says it. Usually, I'll just appreciate their courage and sincerity, then explain to them that I may not be able to reciprocate their feelings as gently as possible. :)

A. Malik · 2mo

my response depends on who said it, and also depends on the situation. mungkin aku bakal kaget juga, mungkin respon ku kayak, oh? makasih ya. and of course i will try not to say anything that might hurt their feelings :D

shakie 𐙚 · 2mo

my answer will depends on who said it. of course, i would try not to say any words that may hurt their feelings but still ill try to be firm with my answer. if communicating wont help then ill just cut them off because its simply disrespecting my opinion. :")

Sei. · 2mo

If we rethink about it, doesn't the word "someone you never expected" would probably hit the same note as someone we never wanted to be going out with? Well, okay, that isn't 100% accurate because sometimes it could be about ones we admire and never thought we can have them as a lover. We never thought about them being in love with us because it has always been that "impossible".

Even though the "what if" theories keep running in mind that make it somehow possible for us to hear a love confession from those we never expect they would, whether the one we ever admire or not, taking my time is the only act I could excuse. Need to take my time, need to think about things properly, and the answer? It depends. Sometimes we could just spontaneously say no because?? Just no. In other case it'd probably end up as a yes, a big yes that impulsively coming out because the excitement is way too big to let us think even just a while, it's not always bad though, love grows. And sometimes, too, we have that desire to get to know them first, lowkey stimmed but then your sanity want you to see how things would go concluding by the times you spend as ones who get to know each other.

S. · 2mo

i think it's gonna be something awkward, i'd say "thank you for saying this", imo if they just want to express their feeling towards me, i'm okay with that

Ivy · 2mo

Maybe it's what we feel, but if there is, just tell the truth. But if you don't, tell her/him slow down. The feeling is no one knows, yaa.

Dareen. · 2mo

Maybe at first I'll feel surprised, but then I'll say thank you.

Zivan. · 2mo

It depends on the situation. If they said it out of nowhere, I'd feel incredibly confused or even uncomfortable, and my response might be something like, 'Oh? Okay... Thank you???' But if they said it during a deep convo or in a supportive context, I'd still be surprised, but I'd express gratitude and inquire further about what they said

Naina · 14 answers · 2mo

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