18 seems to be the cut off age for getting presents from relatives for birthday or Christmas, so my guess is that it wouldn't be done here.

yeah totally

I don’t give money as gifts, at least not at this point in my life

I don't have any friends with kids. Oh, I have one, but only online and I've never met her or her kid. I do send presents to my sisters and my nieces for their birthdays, who are all over 21.

Unless I’m invited to a celebration, no.

No :-)

Nah - they're an adult! Suffer like the rest of us :)

My friends don't have children, but if they did and I had that sort of relationship with them and the parent, of course I would. People don't stop appreciating gifts when they turn 21, so why not?

There is just one kid I try to spoil with some little present though she is not a little girl any more.

I will give them a card