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Wasserpistole · 13 answers · 6y

Have you ever had a stalker in your life or something similar?

yes, actually, for around half a year someone followed me on my way home from a hobby school

I was very young and it messed me up for a long time

Yeah I actually did.After breaking up with my first boyfriend I had anonymous phone calls every night/early in the morning.Nobody would call me at that time and without a number displayed so I was sure that It must have been him.Also he called me a whore in his native language ( left a voice mail) and I think I recognized his voice,I mean I don't really have enemies so who else could it be?And on our house telephone someone once called,anonymously and just moaned and said nothing,really weird and pretty sure that this was him as well.

Yeah. I think only more than 5+ years on I can say I'm fully over it. Made me hate myself, avoid women and develop trust issues with friends... just don't encourage stalkers.

Mostly it was girls I dated and were ready to move in and pick baby names and shit after two dates, that kind of thing

Yes, for a while. I had dated him though. He used to pop out from behind buildings and stuff. I was never scared of him, just irritated. If I was a stalker I would prefer if people gave me some respect and were properly afraid of me.

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