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How do you usually deal with the fact you have been severely betrayed and lied to?
Pasrah aja lah ya, biar Allah yang balas
I would see how it affects me; did it disadvantage me? Did it make me feel like a fool? Did it severely hurt me in a way? If it’s not, then I would let it go. I would act like it never happened, and since I’ve been lied to, then I’d be more careful with who to trust. But if it does hurt me and my pride, disadvantage me, make me look dirty, and make me feel like a fool, I would not hesitate to cut the ties, and act like they are dead to me, forever. If we meet later in the future, I’d act like we never meet before, I’d never speak a word about your behavior unless you start it first.
cut them off, biar allah yang bales 👍
I don't deal with the aftermath, the aftermath deal with me. Unleash the hell, sister. That's how I deal with mine. My loyalty and honesty are not a game for people to play, call me childish but every people who did me wrong, I pay them ten times worse than what they already done to me. I will repent in hell.
Shakespeare once said "Though those that are betrayed do feel the treason sharply, yet the traitor stands in worse case of woe"
Not gonna lie, it'd crush me and I'd need some time to process before getting up. I would seek some quiet time to sort my thoughts. Usually, I realize that their betrayal didn't change anything other than hurting me, so once I heal, everything will go back to the way it is. When I feel self-doubt about the thing they did, I'll try to talk to someone and remember how I came all the way here from my standpoint. Recovering from a betrayal is not the same for everyone, but taking the time to acknowledge our feelings and sort things on my mind would help. It hurts because betrayal never comes from an enemy, it's always from someone we've trusted.
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