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how do you deal with heartbreak? or how do you eventually heal from it?
Honestly.. I don't even know how to deal with a very hurt phase like that. As we know that the heartbreak it's not easy to take and all we need it justā let it flow and accept all the things that you get. If you want to cry, just cry. If you want to be laugh, just laugh, if you want to be angry. Just angry. And if you want to cry while laugh and angry too, just do it. Do anything makes you feel that it's really helps you to express all the pain. Until you feel tired and āokay,that's enough. I don't want to be sad anymore. ā
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Different people, different way and times to heal. On my last heartbreak, i let myself to feel the pain of it. I cried a lot, blame myself, blame my partner, blame everything that happened between us, regret all the things we do, regret all my decisions i chose. I let myself stand in the lowest part of me, i let the anger, the sadness, dissapointment, all the regrets out one times, and when i think all are enough, i'll try to accept anything one by one, step by step. I'll forgive myself, forgive the situations, the decisions, i'll try to look in another point of view of the heartbreak after i only see it in a negative one. I'll take the positive things of the heartbreak and bring it with me to heal. Instead of blaming myself more, i'll accept and i learn from the heartbreak what the dos and donts for me in a rls, and learn that maybe it's just them who don't deserve me and me who don't deserve them cause.. we're just not meant to be together. In my acceptance phase, i'll learn a lot and that's how i heal from the heartbreak. However, every relationship i've been in taught me a new thing, and no matter how full of pain it is, it's still make me so grateful cause of the lesson i get.
i let myself cry as much as i want, regardless of how many days i might spent just to cry, i let that be. i dont believe, "time will heal." everyone may sees different as mine but i personally dont believe in that sentence.
time only makes you forget about the pain, it doesn't heal you in the first place because you're the one that can heal yourself. dealing and healing from heartbreak arent easy things to do, it takes time. let it hurt you until it doesn't, on note to that, don't forget to give more love to yourself.
I don't deal with it, I let it be
I let God and time heal me :] when the time came, I knew I could breathe the good air once again. I always believe in myself or other good things, such as the reason why I'm in this stage and as for me, everything that happens in life isn't a coincidence. So, I consider it my self-image to grow and learn for good! All is well. It's okay to let it all out sometimes or everytime š¤
iām not really sure my healing way is a good way. i moved on by seeing anyone else for me to adoreā¦
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