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Sadam V. Alexandre. · 11 answers · 1y

how to unlove someone?

Move through.

All the feelings that arise when going through the process of letting go of someone surely take time. It's not easy either. There are scratches, small wounds, and even significant injuries, and that's okay. It's human to go through that phase.

Just know that in the future, when we love someone, we have to understand that someday, we'll have to let them go. Everything that comes will eventually go. Life is a series of events, memories, and learning experiences.

I don't think you can truly unlove someone especially those who you shared deep emotions with. But you can move on from that. You can exclude them in your life. Try investing the time, energy and love you have in yourself to something else. Therefore, you will learn to live without them and give your biggest love to someone or something else.

jangan terlalu maksain buat ngelupain dia, tapi jalanin aja apa yang udah ada didepan mata. kalo maksain buat mikir gimana caranya ngelupain dia nanti malah keinget terus.

Ikhlas dia bersama yang lain and simply shut the functions of our heart and make it numb.

Let her/him go, try to create some space between you and the person. Awal-awalnya emang susah, tapi healing takes time. Jadi mungkin harus lebih fokus ke diri sendiri dulu.

i don’t think we can unlove someone, apalagi kalo harus dipaksa gitu. better wait until the love fades away 🥹😔

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