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Leovin · 11 answers · 1y

How do you deal with loneliness? What will you do first?

Honestly speaking, it depends on how I feel on that particular loneliness. Sometimes, I love being struck by solitude. Other times, it made me think about how my loved ones are currently located far away from me. Mostly, I'll let myself feel that loneliness, before making myself occupied with activities such as going outdoors or simply watching a thrilling series.

Lebih ke menyibukkan diri sendiri aja. Ikut kegiatan apapun yang sekiranya saya bisa ketemu banyak orang dan ngobrol, misalnya gaada waktu untuk itu paling saya tidur. Soalnya tidur bisa bikin saya lupa tentang perasaan gaenak.

Hm, tergantung. Kadang kalau lagi pingin berinteraksi. Bakalan ngajak orang-orang jalan-jalan. Nongkrong, main game, apapun itu. Tapi kalau lagi males. Usually me time aja. Nonton sendiri 10/10.

I rarely feel that way but if I do, I'll talk to my friend. If I don't have the energy to talk, I spend time alone watching something, playing games or reading. If it doesn't get better, I'll catch some zzz.

I always tell everything to my Mom if something bothers my mind, like a thought of loneliness or the loneliness itself. My Mom always suggests me to have a time for myself or tell her if I need company so that she can come with me, if I don’t wanna be alone. Sometimes I think my Mom is enough for my company, perhaps because we both are women. :D Aside, I always make myself occupied with things so that I’m not feeling lonely anymore.

What is the reason for questioning something when u already know the answer? Ofc turu.

Tidur wkwkwk. MAAF. Apapun masalahnya yang aku lakuin pertama adalah TIDUR. 😭🙏

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