LaDamaX asked What makes you feel good about yourself?

When my advisor is happy with my research progress.
Also, when people compliment me! Recently posted some stories on my IG. People complimented me. Felt good! Maybe vain but still I liked it!

Teo · 4mo

I do love a thoughtful complement. But exercise, companionship and helping people also does the trick too.

Pandy · 4mo

When her head rests on my bum. It convinces me each time that I am loved not only for my bum. If that does make any sense at all.

When I express myself through writing, art, music, etc. Those are things that I'm talented at, and I feel good using those forms of expression. Also when I help someone else and I can tell that they feel good because of it. :)

BobOmbMonkey · 4mo

Nuffin.

Shannon. · 4mo

I have and always have had very low self esteem. Perhaps because I grew up with a father who criticized every little thing , even the way I sneezed. So when you grow up believing you can’t do anything right, you rarely feel confident. Therefore, nothing really makes you feel good about yourself. I mean, just the other day my dad bet I didnt know the answer to the integral from 0 to pi of cos(2x). I was speechless…do I have the answer memorized? No… but… how low must your opinion be of me , your daughter, who does this shit for a living ? Anyway. That’s my everyday. Even when he’s not directly there, I always feel like I’m being watched and judged on my every move and everyone is disappointed.