Are you more or less attracted to someone who seems to attract a lot of people?
Definitely less attracted. Not because they themselves are unattractive, they could be super charismatic and nice, but it's just not the energy I like to be around. It's anxiety-inducing and part of me just doesn't trust people like that lmao.
It is unlikely that that I feel attracted to the latter type. But exception proves the rule.
🐍 they're charming and kind. Personally, attraction is based on merit and deeds. I can't hold something positive against them. 🐛 At the end of the day, their heart is what speaks volumes and their nurture is what keeps the sparks beating behind closed doors. 🦋
This is of no interest to me.
Probably less, since I'm not really attracted to any bougie cishets, and they're the big sellers. I think I'm probably also just more attracted to people who have more shared experiences with me, including the one of being considered an unfuckable abomination by a high percentage of the population.
More. social capital is attractive. it demonstrates that they're well adjusted and I usually think of them as well rounded people. I used to have a friend who didn't have much of this capital and they would constantly blow up my phone because they didn't have other people to talk to, other stuff to do. I also dated someone like that and she was an abusive BITCH! (not sure that there is any correlation, I just wanted to say she's a bitch)
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