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🌺 AnayaOhNo · 12 answers · 2y

🫣💔If you ever get into an argument with someone, and they don't reach out, do you consider closing that chapter indefinitely or do you make a move to reconcile?

I don’t like to leave a mess— ANYWHERE. Let’s clean things up and reconcile.

I'll make a move, because it's like that one guy said in that one movie I can't remember, the real treasure is the people you meet along the way

I always try to reconcile. It's up to the other person to decide what they do.

...I hope one day that that person will be willing to talk to me again.

Its very rare I argue hard with people I care about, but I'm not ashamed to reconcile if I've been the donut. I tend to try to be the 'bigger man' anyway with arguments and just move on, so if they can't - hey they lose me.

Wait until they're asleep, sneak into their house and turn gas on their stove, board up all the doors and windows from the outside then wait for them to come to their senses. 🌚

I try to reconcile but where I have went wrong is worrying for their safety and not believing in them handling their issues. My weakness is knowing when someone I care about isn't alright

I don't know, I guess it depends. How much do I like them? How bad was the argument? Was it because of something bad about them, or was it something more incidental? I don't usually get into arguments with people.. I did with my friend when I was psychotic 12 years ago, and he stopped talking to me, and it was my fault, and I didn't reach out to him, but that could be because my other friend told me that friend stopped talking to me because I was on SSI and not getting a job. I kinda went off on another friend of mine more recently, and afterward I told him I value our friendship, etc.

Depends. If they are wrong, I won't talk to them. If they're right, I'll try to reconcile.

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