Elèonore Quinn Evangeline · 16 answers · 1y
what kind of parent do you think you'd be?
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what kind of parent do you think you'd be?
I don't see myself getting to that point, but if I ever get the opportunity, I want to be the kind of parent who can consistently meet my children's needs and understand them well.
I am not sure I would be one though as I can’t see my future self having kids.
Strict parents i guess? Hahahahaha
although my thought of becoming a mother is still far away, but i think i'll be the supportive-loud mother. also i'd like to became their bestfriend. so even world isn't on their side, they still have me as their home and their safe place. whenever they feel down, they always have me who ready to listen and hug them if they need it.
I didn’t think that far ahead, but if I were to become a parent, I wouldn’t let my child suffer the way I did before.
Entah.. But I want to be a parent who can always be the most comfortable place for my child to go home.
i wish i’ll grow into a parent who is near to my children, physically and mentally. i wish i’ll grow into a parent that causes my children to know less about how loneliness feels like, that they think of me the first thing everytime they’re in need of something; whether it’s anything i can afford, materialistically, or simply… a companion. i’ll work on being a parent whose companion is always present that my children wouldn’t wish for it upon somebody else. i want to be there for them before anyone else, i want to be aware of what they’re up to before anyone else, i want to tell them beautiful things before anyone else; i just want to appear to them the very first thing, before anyone else. i’ll keep up with trends, not to join in, but to be enough for me to keep up with my children that it’s comfortable to make myself their friends, and i’ll make sure to learn their needs throughout the time so they feel content, because yet again—i don’t want my children to wish for contentment upon somebody else they barely know. i will keep working on my well-being too, as well as on my career and growth, because they’re gonna feel good to have a mother they can be proud of, a mother they can always look up to; a mother whose trace they can follow accordingly. there’s also something that’s just as important: i will be a parent who is wise and careful on choosing the other parent for my children, because my children deserve the best guidance of a father and a beautiful, harmonious growth. even if it’ll take me years to find the other half of mine to start this dream family with, even if i’ll be 30, 35, 37, or 40… even when people start rushing me to go off and find a man already… i am gonna work my hardest to prepare for the best and safest growth for my children, and i won’t ever start before it’s thoroughly ready. there’s just so much dreams and hopes whenever i think of what kind of parent i aspire to be, and my heart feels full everytime i think of it. i have so much love and adoration for my future children, and i’ll make sure to welcome them after a great preparation—never before that. 🤍
I do not know how to answer this ... I am not into marriage, honestly ....
However, if I am destined to be one, perhaps it is to be the kind of mom whose caring and supportive— that I am hoping to be. I might be a little strict but I will not forbid them to chase their dreams. I will try my best to provide my child with all things that are good for their development. I want them to choose their way in life on their own, train their mind to see good in every situation, and I will love them with my all.
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